Shouldn't this be the headline mara? 
Social media influencer and Deejay Sithelo Shozi is left with an egg on her face after boyfriend and baby daddy of two of her three children Andile Mpisane goes to ask for another woman's hand in marriage.
News of the engagement come after videos of Andile proposing to model Tamia Louw now Mpisane at a private event last night. Well the proposal was definitely for show, the real deal was the engagement party, because Tamia had already said YES to Andile.
Reality is Sithelo is 27 years old with 3 kids, she must relax and enjoy the baby mama allowance she will be entitled to until kids are 18 years and she will always be associated with the Mpisane and Mkhize's for life. She must kick herself in the butt for her lack of vision as she could've been the ONE. Tamia 25, is also rumoured to be pregnant with Andile's child or children (it could be twins, who knows). Andile's totolosi seems to be doing a good job in making babies, sadly that can't said about his other streams.
Andile is 20, Tamia 25 and Sithelo 27 this means that Andile's mind can still change in the future as marriage is no child's play yohlule abazali bakhe in their peak. A twenty year old male has no business in getting married, they're not mature enough for marriage duties. The money and family support will be there, but that is no recipe for success and lasting marriage.
Tamia is an aspiring model and Andile is a mediocre recording artist that has recently won an award and a club owner among other things. Also Andile is fame hungry, still trying to find himself because he is alleged to sometimes find his hand in other boys trunks.
The problem that most women do is selling themselves short, staying in situations just to save face. Women of today should be wise enough to know that being pregnant is no passport to happily ever after with him and then cry fowl when the men don't live up to the ideas they created in their heads. Abortion is always an option, do not trap because you might be the one trapped in the situation. Be like men, go for what you want and deal with the consequences later. Ndiyadlala
Please bare in mind that this whole charade could that just be.
Happy nonsense reading!!!
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