The ground-breaking What About the Boys? programme is set to deepen the work being done with young men across the country to promote healthy concepts of masculinity and tackle the challenging reality of Gender-based Violence and Femicide (GBVF).
On 22 June 2023, stakeholders from the private, public, civil and media sector convened at the Radisson Blu Gautrain Hotel in Johannesburg to launch the 2nd annual implementation of the programme, which is set to support more boys on its quest to raise a nation of good men.
What About the Boys?, which was first rolled out across high schools in 2022 and reached 15 000 boys, is a project of youth-development specialists Primestars involving multi-media content (a film, educational booklet, and online resources), as well as hands-on mentorship interventions. It provides an educational and supportive space where boys learn to manage their triggers while understanding the importance of respect, empathy, and dignity in all relationships.
At the event, Primestars announced significant enhancements for the next phase of the programme’s rollout. These are based on the results of a monitoring, evaluation and learning strategy undertaken with the first What About the Boys? implementation. The enhancements will continue to address root causes of GBVF and promote and encourage continued and sustainable growth, accessing an ever-growing number of high school boys across South Africa.
The 2022 post-programme impact assessment painted a positive picture of the rollout, with shifts in attitude and behaviour around bullying, violence and sexual harassment observed at participating schools. The key to feasible behaviour change lies in continuous engagement, deepened knowledge, increased participation, and continuous learning. This year’s rollout of the programme upholds this notion as the organisers announced an expanded school footprint, increased MENtor participation and deeper work in evaluation.
As part of his address, Primestars MD Martin Sweet unpacked some of the additional elements, saying: “This year’s programme will encourage participants to become advocates of GBVF prevention by setting up GBVF councils in their respective schools. These councils will include girls, in order to encourage boys to become allies of girls at school and in the community at large.
He added, "The expansion of the programme to new schools ensures that the message against GBVF spreads widely. By nurturing GBVF councils run by the learners themselves, we aim to encourage organic growth and sustainability”.
One of the changes to the 2024 programme includes the addition of MacDonalds to the list of sponsors. MacDonalds CEO Greg Solomon announced the new partnership saying, “What would an Oreo McFlurry be without Oreos. You need a partnership of ingredients to make a McFlurry. That’s why we partner with organisations like this with vision and leadership values aligned to our own. We recognise what the ‘What About the Boys’ programme stands for and we want to be a part of it.”
Former Deputy President Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka called on all South Africans to make a difference in the life of a boy they know: “I want to thank Primestars for standing up and making a difference, and bringing all of us to be part of this journey. I am thankful for the collaboration with Primestars. I’m just here to say please can we have more. Please can everyone here take responsibility for a boy whose life you are going to change. We all know a boy whose life we can change”.
To echo support and reiterate the need for the programme in the country, Head of the Nelson Mandela Children’s Fund Dr Linda Nkomo said, “This year marks the 10th year since the passing for our former President Nelson Mandela. And we dare not allow the vision he had for changing the way society treats its children die. And part of that vision is the way our society is raising boys. So when it gets daunting and the road seems long, let’s not forget those words Madiba uttered, ‘It always seems impossible until it’s done’. Let’s get it done, one boy at a time.”
The CEO of Business Unity South Africa, Prof Bonang Mohale, said “Maybe as a result of our conversation today we might be in a position to release better humans. Help us move and graduate from humankind to kind humans. From being important people to people of significance. To a society where doing business is seen as not only taking but also giving. Because leadership is an opportunity to improve the quality of the lives of those less fortunate”.
Brave organisations including Sasol, CHIETA, Seriti, Markham, Ford Foundation, ABSA and McDonald’s among others were present to commit themselves to support the worthy programme.
To close the event, Primestars challenged South
Africans to join their movement to raise a nation of good men - good fathers,
good partners, good colleagues, good managers, good lovers, good believers,
good leaders, and good citizens, who can embrace vulnerability, create strong
relationships, and live their fullest lives, leaving the world better than the
way they found it.